I knew one just like her. It's that double whammy of daddy AND severe mommy issues. Dad gave up, mom's mentally ill - this is how they cope, lashing out at everyone, mostly men, primarily themselves. They live in pain daily, so their only escape is the disassociation which they gain from playing with other's hearts, one after another...
Thought I could help her grow with my love, yet she could only interpret this as pity, (((codependence))), an insult; for they believe that they aren't worthy of anything but a cheap thrill. Is this not the lowest state of being? It would seem they're gripped by the subconscious desire to provoke the rage of those that got too close, so that they can be free of their condition, a suicidal puppeteering of sorts. "Get Out" may be of the best portrayals of this type.
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