>>18416
Hugging a stalker isn’t “nice.” It’s insane and risk taking and attention seeking. Textbook BPD. Everything you’re listing to try to prove that she’s nice is just part of her completely overwhelming need for validation from the lowest people on earth because she was never gonna get it from anyone actually admirable. Any time she was “nice” it was because of an unrelenting narcissistic desire for admiration and obsession, not because she wanted to genuinely warm someone’s heart or help someone with something. Her life was dedicated to doing whatever it took to get more positive attention.