There has never been a real man who was made by a woman in the history of the planet. Boys you correspond with on message boards and wherever else, they project their love onto you, and lust after you, and think to themselves that your approval may be about to complete them as people, but this has never happened ever, ever; and they will either become men or non-men on their own, regardless of what you think. As you have a project like this, as you pour yourself into them, as they have to transform naturally into whatever it is they are destined to transform into, they will turn into a person that you barely recognize. Then they won't owe you anything, and you won't want anything from them, and there will just be a cold empty space where your sympathy for their sadness used to be.
