>>52266
>People are busy, maybe they need a break, maybe the connection just naturally faded. Why forcing it?
of course. but nice people set an expectation or apologize or make some attempt to keep in contact less frequently. cewl went from daily messaging several people to abandoning the account entirely, got called out on it on 4chan and was entirely unsympathetic. and she's not inactive, she's gone through various accounts on various platforms and here she is in this thread. people are disposable to her and to most women who contactfag. call it what you want but it's not nice.
>when I say don't be needy I say it for your own sake
yeah I know. I do however think there's a difference between a friendship that's imbalanced from the start and one where someone gets essentially lovebombed. this is extremely common and egirls always get a pass on it. people shouldn't get sucked in but all that is saying is don't trust people and assume everything is transactional. it is just depressing and no, people who do this are not nice.
>>52268
good to know