Judaism have a long history of keeping a good record of what others did wrong to them, remembering vividly things of the distant past, for example: the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem. Playing to be victims and giving a guilt trip to others is what they do as a form of passive-aggressive psychological manipulation. They still bitching talking about the Nazi holocaust as it happened yesterday (and they will keep doing it for years to come).
We choose forgiveness, blame-less attitude and compassion when it is possible and acceptable. All our communications are free from psychological warfare (at least from our point of view). Our short history (showing mostly websites): https://godscommunity.boards.net/thread/16/history-gods-community
