The gate I've seen for a few days in my internal vision, just opened with a metallic "clack" sound before. As I got home and into the yard, a maintenance deity asked if I wanted to move on or stay. When I said I want to move on, she asked if I want to give up all history to pay off "the debts of natural destruction [from having used resources in society]", I said "yes". The deity then took a black note paper which looked more like a really dirty and worn sail from a ship, looked at me as if for confirmation, then said "then, we burn this" and she threw it into a flame and it burned up, "now it's absolved". I looked at my internal image again, and the road behind me is now gone. Only the gate is before me with the lock opened.

I'm going to try the method from the initiation dreamflight
http://dreamwalkerdiaries.blogspot.com/2012/02/your-first-ufo-familiarization-flight.html
which back then worked on first try. This was part of the things offered by the galactic federation back in early online days, where we'd visit "galactic light ships" once a week as a beginner level practice.

I'll just change the target to Famida and see what happens.